Why is extramarital sex such a bad thing?

[Dog]

I'm a married woman, 26. I love my husband. We have a wonderful life together on every level. Great sex life, kids and his family is rich.

The thing is, I have always had the hots for my husbands younger brother, and recently we had sex and I loved it! It was like a crazy wild fantasy coming true! I love my husband and our kids, and I do not intend to leave him. At the same time, would it be so horribly wrong to have sex with my brother-in-law occasionally?

It's not a random guy so it doesn’t feel like cheating to me.

Why is extramarital sex such a bad thing?

Original post and reply here: http://www.askdog.com/2008/06/30/why-is-extramarital-sex-such-a-bad-thing/

[tthan43]

There are an awful lot of people in this world who would agree with you. Unless there is a disease problem or a problem that would potentially cause you to leave your family for another guy, then as long as it is good for you, then do it all you want. Just don't get caught and do not let anyone even get a hint at what is going on. Prying eyes and sneaky gossips will pass the word to him and that is all it takes. You happy little world and all it holds for you will explode.