I am an upperclassmen in high school and last year everything was going so great for me: captain of the dance team, great grades and most importantly, the best guy in the whole world was all mine... Nick was so great; I can truly say that he was my first love. He had some problems with smoking and drinking though, which I didn't like. He didn't do it all the time, only when he was with friends. I trusted him 100% with all of his decisions.
After dating for a year, he went to a friend's house and they were smoking and drinking, and he ended up cheating on me (with the ugliest girl in school!) He knows he made a mistake, and I even broke up with him after that incident. But, we worked everything out and got back together because we were still in love.
The girl that he cheated on me with says that he wasn't very drunk, but my boyfriend said he was, and that he didn't know what he was doing. I'd much rather believe Nick, I know he would never lie but after this whole thing happened --- I don't know whom to believe?!
So time has gone by, and things are okay now. But from time to time, I remember our past and get very upset. He knows this and tries everything to make things better for me.
Is being upset worth it for a guy that I love? When do I know that it's time to get over him and move on?
Original post and reply here:
http://www.askdog.com/2007/06/11/when-do-i-know-that-its-time-to-get-over-him-and-move-on/
