How can I stop having sex with all these guys?

[Dog]

I have been together with my boyfriend for three years. Everyone thinks he's a great guy, myself included. One problem though --- I can't stay faithful to him.

I have cheated on him more times than I can remember, and always when I get drunk on a girl's night out, which we have every two weeks.

He doesn't know anything about my indiscretions. My girlfriends know and they are not happy about it... I'm nervous that one of them will tell my boyfriend eventually.

I always feel guilty about it, until I get over it and do it again! I don't want to lose my boyfriend but I also don't know how to stop myself.

How can I stop having sex with all these guys?

Original post and reply here: http://www.askdog.com/2006/12/10/how-can-i-stop-having-sex-with-all-these-guys/

[Hopeless Romantic]

Three years and you are still cheating?!?! Obviously you have no respect for this guy and he must be blind and/or deaf for not finding out about it this whole time. It's evident that you are not satisfied with something or else you would be faithful. I suggest you break it off because you are only hurting the both of you with this behavior. I think you are right in worrying that your friends might tell him, because trust me, after three years, it will happen, if it hasn't already. And I think you deserve it for letting it get this far. In the end it is a choice, and you do have the power.
If you think that after learning of your indiscretions that he can forgive you and stay with you despite everything, maybe you should look into some counseling, or suggest your relationship be an open one if you think he will go for it and if you genuinely believe you cannot stop.
Otherwise you just might be one of the rare cases of nymphomania, in which case you really should seek professional help before you do yourself harm.

Honesty and communication are always key!

Good luck!

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