I started dating this guy about a month and a half back. We pretty much clicked right away, and everything was going well: we went to my prom together, and whatnot.
About a week after my prom, I received three text messages notifying me that he was ending our relationship, using cliched phrases, such as "you are nice, but we aren't meant to be together", "I wish things could have been different" etc.
That happened to be a Friday. On Monday, when I returned to school, a friend alerted me that he was previously in a homosexual relationship. That last point isn't very valid to the final question, I just find it highly humorous and entertaining, and it makes me feel slightly better.
Anyhow, I returned to the mall a few days later (he works in a store there), and passing by the store, I saw him chatting up some other chick. I'm positive she was the real reason I was dumped... I'm also positive that he saw me, and it made me slightly angered that he didn't approach me, and tell me something (I'm sorry I sent you a text message, blah, blah, blah...) Therefore, I purchased ice cream and threw it on his car (He never brought up the ice cream incident.)
Later on, I decided to send him a text message asking him to please mail me my prom pictures (which were sent to his house). He told me that I could come pick them up at his work, because "he doesn’t send mail". I had a thought that he may possibly ask me out again…
Would it be acceptable (for lack of a better word) to say yes, if he did ask me out, only to break up with him? None of his girlfriends has broken up with him before; therefore, would it be ok to have revenge, seeing, as there was no "valid" reason for him to break up with me?
Basically... Would it be ok to get together so I could break up with him?
Original post and reply here:
http://www.askdog.com/2008/05/19/would-it-be-ok-to-get-together-so-i-could-break-up-with-him/
